Clara's cooking show began in 2007 and ran for a few years. It was an internet sensation partly because in 2008, 2009, 2010 the country was in a deep recession. Clara was a comforting presence as she cooked her meals and shared stories about how her family made it through hard times.
Wednesday, May 22, 2024
Clara's Kitchen: Wisdom Memories And Recipes From The Great Depression by Clara Cannucciari.
Sunday, May 19, 2024
Between Them: Remembering My Parents by Richard Ford
"The fact that lives and deaths often go unnoticed has specifically inspired this small book about my parents and set its task". - Richard Ford
Richard Ford is one of America's great writers and I became a fan decades ago when I read his short story collection Rock Springs. I loved that book, particularly the title story. I then went on to read The Sportswriter. It's the first novel in Richard Ford's acclaimed series centering around the life and times of Frank Bascombe.
I enjoyed The Sportswriter but I never bonded enough with Frank Bascombe to continue with the series. As I recall Frank can be very funny in an understated way but at his core there is a sadness to him and I wasn't in the right mood at the time. But thanks to Richard Ford's moving and beautifully written memoir Between Them: Remembering My Parents (2019) I am reconnecting with an author I have long admired.
Between Them tells the story of Richard's parents Parker and Edna Ford. They grew up in Arkansas in the early part of the 20th century. Their childhoods were not easy and so when they met each other it was a stroke of good luck. Edna and Parker married young and Richard Ford writes::
"All along they wanted children. It was the normal thing. But that simply hadn’t happened. They weren’t sure why. Though it only made them closer—walled out the past and the future both. A suicide for a father and a severe Irish mother can close off a lot. Plus, my mother had had anything but an easy life before going to the nuns. The past for them wasn’t an accommodating site"
Parker and Edna accepted the fact that children were not in their future. Parker was a traveling salesman throughout the 1930's and Edna travelled with him on his sales trips. They lived in hotels, became friends with all kinds of people, ate at supper clubs and made a good living. But most important they were together. And then in 1944 fifteen years into their marriage Edna got pregnant and Richard Ford their only child was born
There is a sadness to this memoir in that the author does seem to feel that when it comes to his parents they loved him but he was a bit of a third wheel in their lives. As many have commented the title of the memoir Between Them seems to indicate this. But is Richard Ford right? I thought so at the beginning of the book but by the end of this memoir (which is not very long) I wasn't so sure.
I say this because Between Them is written in two parts. The first part of the book is Richard Ford's tribute to his father, Parker Ford, and was written recently in 2017. This section has a more distant quality because Parker Ford died in 1960 from heart failure when Richard was sixteen. And before his death Richard didn't really know his father well. Parker was away alot as a traveling salesman and when he came home he didn't communicate his feelings that much. And we can only imagine the effect on Parker that his own father's suicide when he was a young boy must have had on him.
Part Two is Ford's tribute to his mother and was written in 1981 shortly after her death from cancer. Edna Ford lived twenty years after her husband. She never fully recovered from Parker's death but she got on with life. Edna had a job working in an ER which she liked, made friends, went out to dinner. She was a big fan of The Dodgers and Richard and his wife Kristina took Edna on trips, visited, had her over and took her to baseball games. And Edna cared about her son Richard. As the author tells us, Edna would sometimes pull him aside and ask:
"Richard, are you happy?” And when I told her I was, she would say in a warning voice, “You must be happy. That’s so important.” Not that she was unhappy, but just that she knew whereof she spoke.
Between Them: Remembering My Parents by Richard Ford is a great memoir, 5 stars. And thank you to Sam at Book Chase (bookchase.blogspot.com) for his very fine review last year alerting me to this book. It had been my plan for many years to return to reading Richard Ford and Sam's review gave me the push I needed. And now it's time to dust off my copy of the Sportswriter and give Frank Bascombe another try.
Monday, May 13, 2024
The Midwife's Apprentice by Karen Cushman
Saturday, May 04, 2024
Now In November by Josephine W. Johnson
Saturday, April 27, 2024
White Horse by Erika T. Wurth
"There was something strange, mysterious even, about the White Horse tonight. Normally, it was merely an Indian bar. My Indian bar. But there was a milky, dreamy quality to the red lights swinging over the pool tables, like the wind from the open doors was bringing them something new, something I’d pushed away for as long as I could remember" - Erika T Wurth, White Horse
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
The Southern Book Club's Guide To Slaying Vampires by Grady Hendrix
Saturday, April 06, 2024
I Await The Devil's Coming by Mary MacLane
I am not sure how I first heard about the writer Mary MacLane but in 1902 her diary "I Await The Devil's Coming" caused quite a sensation. People were scandalized that a nineteen year old woman living in Butte, Montana could write such a book. Mary boldly recorded her nonconformist thoughts and opinions into her diary and her words resonated particularly with young women of that time.
"I have the personality, the nature, of a Napoleon, albeit a feminine translation. And therefore I do not conquer; I do not even fight. I manage only to exist. Poor little Mary MacLane!—what might you not be? What wonderful things might you not do? But held down, half-buried, a seed fallen in barren ground, alone, uncomprehended, obscure— Weep, world,—why don’t you?—for poor little Mary MacLane!"
I Await The Devil's Coming became an immediate bestseller but as with most books eventually fell into obscurity. But today Mary MacLane's diary is once again available thanks to Amazon and Project Guttenberg and its author has been described as an early feminist, a bohemian free spirit, the first flapper. And there is no doubt that if Mary were alive today she would have her own blog.
But is I Await The Devil's Calling worth reading? I rated the book three stars on goodreads because Mary MacLane is a talented and fearless writer. Her memoir is also interesting from a historical perspective. What were young women like in 1902 and what were they writing in their journals?
But as much as I appreciated Mary MacLane's candor and talent I found myself struggling to get through I Await The Devil's Coming. Her diary is not very long and it started out great for me but the deeper I got into her book the more I wondered was I reading a diary by a bold nonconformist or a depressed young woman who lived during a time when depression was not discussed or treated:
"Often you hear a dozen stories of how the Devil was most ready and willing to take all from some one and give him his measure of Happiness. And sometimes the person was innately virtuous and so could not take the Happiness when it was offered. But Happiness is its own justification, and it should be eagerly grasped when it comes. A world filled with fools will never learn this. And so here I stand in the midst of Nothingness waiting and longing for the Devil, and he doesn’t come. I feel a choking, strangling, frenzied feeling awaiting—oh, why doesn’t my Happiness come! I have waited so long"
Mary writes often in her diary about her feeling of nothingness and how she has no one to talk to including her parents and siblings. No one understands her as she sees it and Mary's one close friend moved away. And so as Mary tells us she awaits the devil's coming to bestow her with happiness, badness fame, anything to take away the emptiness she feels. And its an emptiness that seems to have plaged Mary MacLane all her life even after she aquired the fame she sought. Sadly her life was a hard one and Mary was found dead in a hotel room in 1929 at the age of 48.
I don't know that I can recommend I Await The Devil's Coming. I struggled to get through it.. But I am glad Mary MacLane's books are available to a new generation to inspire them to say what they feel in their journals regardless of what others might think.






