Tuesday, September 17, 2024

Rules Of Civility by Amor Towles

"In our twenties, when there is still so much time ahead of us, time that seems ample for a hundred indecisions, for a hundred visions and revisions—we draw a card, and we must decide right then and there whether to keep that card and discard the next, or discard the first card and keep the second. And before we know it, the deck has been played out and the decisions we have just made will shape our lives for decades to come.” - Amor Towles, Rules of Civility

Amor Towles is a critically acclaimed internationally best selling author and so I have been meaning to read him.  I thought I would begin with A Gentleman In Moscow but Rules Of Civilty is a shorter read.  And Olive from ABookOlive has raved about Rules of Civility on YouTube.  She has read this book nine times and always finds something new.  And so I was curious.

Rules of Civility is set in NYC.  And when the novel begins it is the 1960's and Katey Kontent and her husband are at the Museum of Modern Art viewing a photography exhibit by Walker Evans that he took of people riding the subways during the late 1930's.  

As Katey (who is the narrator of Rules Of Civility) looks at these photos she spots a photo  of someone she once knew, Tinker Grey. The first photograph of Tinker is from 1938.  He is handsome, young and wealthy.  But then she spots a second photo of Tinker from 1939 and it's clear that in the space of a year Tinker has come down in the world financially. He's poor but paradoxically he also looks younger and more at peace with himself.  

The rest of the novel transports us back to 1938 when Katey was 25, living in Manhattan and rooming with her friend Eve Ross.  Both girls decide on New Year's Eve, as 1938 approaches, to go to a jazz club which is where they first meet Tinker (Theodore) Grey.  As Katey tells us:

"He was terrific looking.  An upright five foot ten, dressed in black tie with a coat draped over his arm, he had brown hair and royal blue eyes and a small star-shaped blush at the center of each cheek. You could just picture his forebear at the helm of the Mayflower—with a gaze trained brightly on the horizon and hair a little curly from the salt sea air. —Dibs, said Eve" 

It will be through meeting Tinker that Katey and Eve enter NYC's high society.  Wealthy young people who live on Central Park West, drive expensive cars, wear the latest fashions and dine at The El Morocco, The Rainbow Room, 21, The Explorer Club.  Amor Towles through his narrator Katey Kontent goes into great detail describing this world.  Katey is both critical of it but also hooked.  

And to be frank the book by going into so much detail about the expensive restaurants, the clothes, the beautiful apartments, the parties etc was dragging for me.  I wasn't sensing a plot.  But its around page 240 that a truth is revealed about Tinker which for me was worth waiting for and the rest of the novel was a very fast read.  

Tinker Grey went from a character I liked and felt bad for at times to a fascinating character that I ended up being smitten with.  I finished the novel wanting to know what happened to him and how his life turned out.  I hope Amor Towles will one day tell us and because of Tinker I am giving Rules of Civility 4 stars.

11 comments:

  1. I haven't read anything by the author either and because you make this sound very interesting, I will try something. I think I have A Gentleman in Moscow on my Kindle but will look into Rules of Civility too. I'm currently reading Katie Lumsden's (I think you watch her channel don't you?) new book, The Trouble With Mrs. Montgomery Hurst. It's really good!

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  2. I think that Gentleman In Moscow though I haven't read it is the better book.people really like it. I enjoyed Rules of Civility but it took me a long while to get into the novel and if it hadn't been for Tinker Grey I probably would be giving it a so/so review. I do watch Katie and my library has her first book. I will put in my order. Maybe a Victober read.

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  3. I don't remember much about this novel, only that I did like it. And I have a feeling it was both because of the time period in which it is set, and for Tinker. Who I do remember. :D

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    1. Tinker was the character that stood out for me. He did not have an easy life but he was a good person and I would love a sequel to find out what happened to him. But that is strictly the author's decision on what to write next.

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    2. If he did write a sequel about Tinker I would definitely read it!

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  4. I have read both A Gentleman In Moscow and Rules Of Civility by Towles. I liked both of them but A Gentleman In Moscow was the more readable one for me. I have forgotten a lot about Rules of Civility, though. I also read The Lincoln Highway and did not like that one as well as the other two.

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    1. A Gentleman In Moscow does seem to be the favorite for most people who read Towles and I enjoy books set in Russia so I must put it on my list.

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  5. Gosh I'm trying to recall the reveal on page 240 about Tinker. I recall a crash that changes all their lives but I wish I could recall the Tinker thing. I agree that Towles goes on too much in this novel -- for me to love it. I had to check my review from 2019. His character Evelyn Ross is in a story of his new book which is fine ... but I wish it had Tinker!

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    1. I am hesitant to give away too much about Tinker but its at a restaurant that Katey spots Tinker and let's just say he is nor who she thought he was. He is leading a double life. Eve was a good character but Tinker was my favorite and I am hoping Amor Towles will fill us in about what happened to him.

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  6. I really truly need to read this next! I loved your review, especially how your view of plot and character transitioned--I think that is part of the magic of Towles's writing. His smooth writing lulls you in one direction, and then bam! Excellent post :)

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    1. Thanks so much Jane. Amor Towles is such a great writer and I will be curious what he writes next because each of the novels is so different. I should check out A Gentleman In Moscow.

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