Ethan Frome is set in a small New England town, Starkfield, MA, during the late 19th and early 20th century. The winters are fierce and when the novel begins we meet a young man visiting Starkfield on business. While in town the young man, who serves as the narrator, spots an elderly disabled gentleman heading into the local store. Something about this man intrigues the narrator. He seems depressed, solemn and very much alone.
The narrator learns that the man is Ethan Frome, he is 52 and a poor farmer who rarely comes into town anymore. The narrator asks more questions and the rest of the novel takes us back twenty five years to when Ethan was young and living in Starkfield with his whole life before him.
Ethan had wanted to go to college but his father died and then Ethan's mother got sick and he had to run the farm and take care of her. When Ethan's mother passed on he married Zeena, the nurse who helped care for his mother. It seemed like a good match. Zeena was a take-charge, talkative young woman with an energy that Ethan lacked. But not too long after they married Zeena began to change:
"She chose to look down on Starkfield, but she could not have lived in a place which looked down on her. Even Bettsbridge or Shadd’s Falls would not have been sufficiently aware of her, and in the greater cities which attracted Ethan she would have suffered a complete loss of identity. And within a year of their marriage she developed the “sickliness” which had since made her notable even in a community rich in pathological instances ... he soon saw that her skill as a nurse had been acquired by the absorbed observation of her own symptoms"
To help with her various illnesses Zeena hires her cousin Mattie Silver to cook and clean . Mattie is young, pretty, cheerful and to Ethan a breath of fresh air. Ethan falls hard for Mattie and she falls for him as well. But Mattie is vulnerable. Her parents are dead and her relatives have had no desire to help her out, only her cousin Zeena who is looking for a live-in caretaker was willing to take Mattie in.
And then Zeena begins to suspect something is going on between Ethan and Mattie and Zeena decides to hire a new girl and Mattie is asked to leave. Ethan is devastated. He contemplates running away with Mattie but what would the neighbors say and how could Zeena run the farm all by herself?
Ethan decides he has to stay but he offers to take Mattie to the train station. They travel by sled, it is snowing, and in a reckless act Mattie and Ethan decide not to part but to ride their sled fast down a hill right into an elm tree. It is Mattie and Ethan's desparate attempt at a way out, suicide. But it doesn't work and the end of the book twenty five years later has left Ethan, Zeena and Mattie in a much worse place than before the "accident".
And so it's not surprising our high school class had problems with this novel and I can't say now upon a second reading that I have warmed up all that much to Ethan Frome either but there are many who love this book. The writing is excellent which is not surprising since Edith Wharton is brilliant. And in trying to analyze the meaning of Ethan Frome I checked Cliff Notes and came upon the following:
"The message that Wharton conveys through Ethan is that when people fear they are violating the rules of society, they risk becoming enslaved by those rules"
That rings true. Ethan Frome is a man who wants to leave Zeena, a bitter angry woman who spends her time nursing her imaginary ailments. He wants to leave with Mattie and have a new start but back in the late 1800's what would society say? And one of the takeaways from this novel, according to critics, is that sometimes you have to change things regardless of what society will say because if you don't you can end up taking desparate risks that can end in tragedy.
And so my rereading of Ethan Frome has made me realize that its an important classic but maybe it's better as a college read. I'm not sure kids are ready for it's powerful message in high school.

I do sometimes wonder if classics are a bit lost on the young. Unusual ones anyway, Jane Austen, Dickens, The Brontes, fine. But others are quite deep and perhaps require a level of understanding that teens don't possess. I remember too a teacher trying to get our class, aged about 13, to read Jane Eyre around the class. Oh my goodness. When I eventually got over being put off the book completely I was 16 and and loved it but most of my class probably never got over the dislike and it's a shame.
ReplyDeleteHi Cath, I agree, unusual difficult classics are better left to college age students. And a good point that by assigning Jane Eyre to 13 year olds many probably never bothered to read it again and it's great that you did because it's a wonderful classic that deserves many rereads.
DeleteAnd the first book we read by an author matters. After the Ethan Frome experience I decided years later to give The House of Mirth a try but for many in my class Ethan Frome will remain their only experience reading Wharton.
I have found that most of the classics we were "forced" to read in high school are much, much better the second time around. One of my favorite books from senior year high school is Theodore Dreiser's "An American Tragedy." I loved that book even at the time (and have re-read it at least four times since high school), but 90% of the class either hated it or didn't finish it. I agree with Cath that maybe we were just too young and emotionally immature to appreciate what we were holding.
ReplyDeleteHi Sam, I read Sister Carrie by Theodore Dresier and I remember enjoying the book and I must read American Tragedy because I like crime novels and alot else is discussed in the book as well about class and the role it plays in society as I understand. And the fact that you have read it many times and it's still a favorite means it's a book worth checking out.
DeleteIn grammar school we were assigned Lord of the Flies and that book made an impression on me. So much so that even to this day I am somewhat afraid to reread it.LOL
I read this one on my own in my early 20s and thought it was so sad and depressing. But I really love Edith Wharton and all her other books, so I went back and reread this one I don't know how many years later, and while I still don't love it, I did end up appreciating it a lot more the second time around. Though I agree, it's not a good book for that high school age crowd.
ReplyDeleteHi Lark, That's how I felt about rereading Ethan Frome, I didn't love it but I appreciated it more and it has also inspired me to go on and read another book by Wharton by the end of this year because so far I have only read two of her novels and she has many other great books out there.
DeleteSome of her short stories are really great, too. :D
DeleteOh I'm glad you revisited this novel. It's a cold-stone heartbreaker! I last read it in 2017 and it definitely turned me onto Wharton. She's a master! I need to read more of her novels. Here's some of my thoughts on it: https://www.thecuecard.com/books/home-fire-ethan-frome/
ReplyDeleteHi Susan, So glad you liked this book and I went back and read your review of Ethan Frome in 2017 and what an excellent review. You write so well and great to read Brian's review which you link to .
ReplyDeleteEthan Frome may never be my cup of tea but my rereading did give me a new appreciation. And all of us, you, me Lark and Brian are Edith Wharton fans and I have to start reading more from her.
Yes I need to read another Wharton novel this year! I need to fit more classics in ... but everything gets so busy and library books are always due when I'm not ready. lol. Keep up the Wharton!
DeleteI am sorry to wait so long to comment. I want to read this book; for some reason I thought it was a long book, but recently realized it was very short, a novella. So it is definitely worth reading. I do have an ebook copy that I purchased in 2023, so I need to put it on a list to read in 2024. Thanks for reminding.
ReplyDeleteHi Tracy, it is a short novel and Edith Wharton is definitely a writer to read. Ethan Frome I'm sensing is a book people have strong feelings about one way or the other.. Many love it and certainly it has a powerful message. I think you should read it and then read as Lark says some of Wharton's short stories or my favorite The House of Mirth.
DeleteI'm one of those people who read this in high school and hated it, and then reread it a few years and really liked it. Granted, I did have to go back and reread my blog post on it to remember why I liked it, and the net-net is that it is not a work for young people, as you said. I read it slowly--could only take 2-3 chapters a week, but that slow pace enabled me to actually think about what Wharton was doing. I think it is a great piece of writing but it takes work. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThanks Jane and agree a slower reading might be the way to go with Ethan Frome. Wharton has an important message in this book. Ethan needed either to stand up to Zeena or he needed to leave Zeena but he couldn't do either and when you stay in a bad situation you can end up in a much worse place that if you had defied society and left to save yourself. I will check out your review.
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