Sunday, January 15, 2023

It's Not All Downhill From Here by Terry McMillan

This review will contain spoilers.

It's Not All Downhill From Here by Terry McMillan published 2020 is a novel about female friendship, aging, children, husbands, finances and how life doesn't have to be over when we reach our senior years. The four friends at the center of this novel: Loretha, Korynthia, Lucky and Sadie are in their late 60's.  They live in Pasadena and have known each other since high school.  A fifth friend, Pookie, lives out of state but joins the group via zoom when the friends have their monthly dinner to catch up and offer each other advise and support.

One of the friends, Loretha, narrates the novel and when we meet Loretha her life is going well.  She and her husband Carl have a great marriage. They are financially secure.  No serious health issues.  Things are not perfect of course.  Loretha worries about her daughter's drinking but for the most part Loretha's life is in a good place

And then while they are on vacation Carl dies suddenly from a heart attack.  Loretha is devastated and a few months later she learns she has diabetes.  Her friends' lives have hit a rough patch as well.   Lucky's husband wants a divorce. Korynthia has a son who is hooked on opiods. Sadie is involved with the married pastor at her church and Pookie has been hiding the truth about her cancer diagnosis.

But the title of the book It's Not All Downhill From Here assures us that happy endings are coming, maybe not sadly for Pookie but certainly for Lucky, Loretha, Sadie and Korynthia.  And I guess that's why I had a problem with the book which is humorous and touching but for me unrealistic.  Take Loretha for example, it's not just that as the novel progresses she begins to get her diabetes under control by sensible eating and that her daughter decides to go into rehab and deal with her depression.  These two changes in Loretha life are realistic and inspiring.

But the good fortune doesn't end there.  Loretha by the time the novel ends has also opened up a new beauty shop that becomes the hit of the neighborhood.  She reunites with her sister who she has been estranged from for years.  Her son, his wife and their children decide to move back to Pasadena from Japan where they were living so the family can all be together.  And, you guessed it, a handsome man in Loretha's exercise class asks her out for coffee.  Now, I believe at any age people can turn their life around but to this extent?  And the lives of Loretha's friends are also going swimmingly by the time the novel comes to a close.

Terry McMillan is a talented writer.  I loved Waiting To Exhale which was a huge bestseller in the 1990's.  But It's Not All Downhill From Here for me was a letdown.  That said this book did receive a starred review from Publisher's Weekly and thousands of positive reviews at Amazon.com so you might want to give the book a try and judge for yourself.

8 comments:

  1. Proof that a well thought out, well written, review is useful even if it is a less enthusiastic one. 😀

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    1. Thanks so much and you have to be honest in a review. We can't love everything we read and we have to say so. Now others do like this book so it could just be me but I found the book unrealistic. I like hapoy endings but achievable ones.

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  2. Sounds like this one gets a bit too unrealistic towards the end. Sorry you didn't enjoy it more.

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    1. Hi Lark, Didn't enjoy it as much as I thought I was going to. I think the premise of the novel is good which is that it's not all downhill from here once we reach a certain age. But I think for the reader to be truly inspired by the four women in the novel the outcomes for these characters had t be more realistic and attainable.

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  3. Sorry, I entered a comment as Anonymous (by mistake) and now it doesn't show up. I enjoyed your review and it is interesting to know more about this author

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  4. Hi Tracy, I am also having trouble posting. I would definitely recommend Terry McMillan's novel Waiting To Exhale. It was huge hit in the 1990's and it was my first time reading the author and I loved the book. The movie not so much. I was expecting to like It's Not All Downhill From Here as well but I didn't but that's me. The novel is getting good reviews.

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  5. Sorry to hear you didn’t enjoy it. Hope your next read is enjoyable.
    Regine
    www.rsrue.blogspot.com

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  6. Hi Regine. I didn't enjoy it which is surprising since Terry McMillan is an author I really like. I recommend Waiting To Echale which I loved.

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